Being a parent is the greatest adventure that I have experienced in life. Being a dad has provided me with a new perspective in life and forces me to become a better person every day. My wife, Erin, and I have been blessed with 2 healthy, and mostly happy, daughters. Abigail was born April 29, 2011 and Bridget was born 3 years and a week later, on May 6, 2014. I'm pretty sure they could not be any different from each other. Join me on my journey of being a parent.

Sunday, March 26, 2017

Cabin Fever

Cabin fever set in hard core at the O'Connell house this week. After some nice weather over the past couple of weeks, we were treated to pretty much every kind of weather that Iowa has to offer with the exception of sunshine and mild temperatures. With very few opportunities to play outside, both girls went stir crazy. For some reason, both girls were extra tired all week as well, which as all parents know, makes life a little extra crazy.

Sadly, I don't have much exciting to write about this week so I'll give you a random list of happenings.

  1. Bridget's new favorite thing to say is "Yup!" She pretty much answers every question that way. I find this a drastic improvement of being told no all of the time.
  2. Abigail, along with all of the other girls in her dance class, were so tired on Wednesday that they were sitting down and refusing to dance. Her teacher made a point to tell all of the parents to get them extra sleep before next week.
  3. Bridget is NOT a morning person. I have learned that it is better to make a bunch of racket prior to entering her room in hopes of her being awake when I open the door. If she is still sleeping when we go in, she acts like a teenager and pulls the covers over her head. Then she proceeds to throw a fit. 
  4. Today, we met my uncle Mike and aunt Sara for lunch (along with my brother and his family) as they were passing through town. Both girls did great at lunch and as always it was great to see family.
Maybe next week I will have more things to write about.

Sunday, March 19, 2017

Spring Break Craziness

From snow and wind to bright sunshine and warm, the weather for spring break was all over the board. Like the weather, we did a lot of interesting things as well. After having a sick kid at home the entire first weekend, we had a lot of fun the remainder of the week. On Wednesday I picked the girls up from daycare and we went to the car wash. This may sound silly, but the girls love going through the car wash so I usually try to take them with me. Bridget was funny to watch as she covered her eyes each time the sprayer went by her window.

Bridget hiding her eyes at the car wash
On Thursday afternoon we headed to my parents house for the weekend. We did a lot of things during the trip including getting our taxes done, visiting my grandparents in Waukon, and attending a memorial service to support a couple of friends from high school. When we arrived in Evansdale there was several inches of snow on the ground, so we headed outside Friday morning to do some sledding. One of my old sleds allowed Bridget, Abigail and I to go down all together. We all had a blast! By the time we got back from Waukon on Friday evening, nearly all of the snow was gone.

Bridget pulling her sled back up the hill
As usual, both girls had a great time visiting Great Grandma and Grandpa Zobeck. I think grandma and grandpa enjoyed it as well. 

Posing for a picture before we leave
A surprise visit from Grandma and Grandpa Weiler, along with Great Grandma Engelmann this morning was a lot of fun for Bridget and I. Sadly, Erin and Abigail were at church and just missed them. We capped off the weekend playing outside and enjoying the nice weather. 

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Fever And Sledding

Last Thursday I got a call from daycare that Bridget was refusing to eat and was running a fever. I picked her up and brought her home. That fever came and went all weekend and didn't fully disappear until Monday. In true Bridget fashion she was still acting her normal silly self for the most part.

On Sunday night we got a few inches of snow. When I picked up Abigail after work she asked if we could play in the snow. After we got home we got all bundled up and headed out to play in the yard. After playing for a bit I decided to load up the sled in search of a hill. Now Grimes is fairly flat so we settled for a small hill near Abigail's school. That hill is all we needed as we spent the next hour having a blast sledding down the hill. That was most likely the last time we will get to play in the snow this year and was a great way to end it.

This week we are preparing for a trip to Evansdale to see my parents as well as to Waukon to see my grandparents. The girls love visiting their grandparents and I know that my grandparents love seeing them.

Sunday, March 5, 2017

Lent Begins

This past Wednesday marks the beginning of the season of Lent. Lent has been my favorite church season for years, there is something about inward reflection and focusing on improvement that drives and excites me. On Wednesday evening, Abigail's faith formation class was cancelled in favor of Ash Wednesday mass so we headed to church after her dance class was over. She was very full of questions throughout the mass and I was very impressed at the observations that she was making. I hope that she continues to show curiosity at church and ask questions.

On Friday evening I returned to church with Abigail and Bridget to attend the Knight's fish dinner while Erin went out after work with the teachers from her school. Baked tilapia, oven potatoes, mac and cheese, and green beans made a very enjoyable meal for all. The girls were very well behaved and ate well also.

Now that I have you thinking my kids are perfect and adorable all of the time, I'll throw in some additional reality from the week. Last night, Abigail and I were planning to attend a daddy-daughter dance, but Abigail lost her chance to attend after getting in trouble at school on Thursday. I guess the incentive of spending an evening with an amazing daddy like myself just wasn't enough.

We have been keeping "Caught you being good!" sticker sheets for both girls. After receiving a certain number of stickers they earn a prize. The current prize was a date night with either mommy or daddy. For some unknown and suspicious reason, Bridget chose to go with me. Since my Saturday evening was freed up, I planed to take her to Pizza Ranch as she wanted to eat pizza. When it was time to get ready and leave, her little brain decided to start interpreting requests and commands backwards. In a span of about 15 minutes while just trying to get her shoes on, she did pretty much every naughty thing that she knows how to do. In the end, I gave up and decided it wasn't worth it and thought we would try again another time.